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Say goodbye to ordinary, everyday lovemaking. This wonderful 72 step guide will show you how to make the most of your efforts and how to get the best rewards!

The Real Basics

1. Make sure you get colors right. Colors can set the mood for a great sexual experience. Red is a wonderful color of passion. Set the mood with this color.

2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.

3. Don’t become complacent about the location your lovemaking takes place in, variety really is the spice of life. Try the kitchen table or the kitchen bench. Not only will you find your lovemaking more intense, it may seem like a whole new experience.

4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!

5. Oral sex is a great way to explore your partner and will get him highly aroused. It is always good to have the favor returned as well. If you are looking for that little bit extra, you can try the vibrating toys that attach to your tongue.

6. Make your experience about more than just the act of sex. Make it entertaining, draw it out. You can search the internet and find multiple adult games you can play. If you don’t have time to do the research first, how about a sultry and fun game like strip poker?

7. The most common complaint from women is that they don’t get to achieve orgasm most of the time. There is a position that may help her get to the pinnacle of passion. Try placing a pillow under her buttocks, this raises the vagina to a better position and helps aid in the penis to clitoris contact.

8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.

9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.

10. If you like using Sex Toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.

11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.

12. Get to know your man’s penis by masturbating him. Ask him what he likes or get him to show you how he masturbates himself. Men are just as different as women as how they please themselves. Once you have learned what he likes, you can then introduce other things like cock-rings.

13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.

14. Did you know that what a man eats can effect the taste of his sperm? If you want a more pleasant taste, get him to consume things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in them.

15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.

16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.

17. Sex outdoors is always a thrilling experience. Be mindful of the laws though as this act is always frowned upon, which makes it even more exciting. If you are driving home late at night and there is no-one around, how about pulling over the car and having a quickie?

18. Do you have trouble getting your man’s attention when you want it? Is he often too busy to make time for you? How about this nifty trick to get his attention. Go towards him on your knees and with your hands behind your back, start licking his crotch through his pants. He won’t be able to resist for long.

The Right Sex Position Means a Lot

19. The missionary position is the most timeworn, most guaranteed position for a sex episode of night. It allows your man to penetrate you to the highest degree and leads to ultimate satisfaction to both of you.

20. There is another reason for trying out the missionary position most of the time. When you are offering yourself to your man in the missionary position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter. Though this gives you still the same amount of satisfaction, it allows the man to get better penetration. This actually panders to his male ego because he feels he has a bigger penis!

21. Close body contact can be highly arousing, try laying fully on top of a woman without penetrating her. You will both feel the sensations of each others bodies.

22. Be the one on top, take charge of your lovemaking and ride your man. You will feel empowered doing this and it puts you in charge of the speed of things.

23. Don’t think doggy style is too embarrassing. It is a wonderful pose if you are into anal sex. It also gives him great pleasure because this particular position squeezes his penis on the sides, which is quite a different feeling for him.

24. The spoon position is something that usually happens in the afterglow of sex. But why not try it as a sexual position instead? Enter your partner from behind, either anally or vaginally.

25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.

Table Manners - Sex!

26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.

27. Grapes and ice cubes can be great fun. Run them along each other’s bodies and feel the cold sensations tingling all over.

28. This is another sex-citing game. Paint lines on your man with a black marker pen in a paint-by-numbers kind of pattern. Then dab different kinds of ice-cream flavors on the different regions that are formed. Ask your man to call out different numbers and you go ahead and lick the ice-cream from that particular area. This can turn real hot! Don’t forget to ask the man to return the favor.

29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.

30. Alcohol is also a great sex tool, and no, not drinking it. Bubbly champagne tickles if poured on a naked body.

31. Instead of the old usual sliding ice cubes up and down each others body, why not use frozen fruit instead? This will leave a sweet sticky trail for your tongue to follow.

32. Have you heard of the sex and chocolate catchline? There’s really something to it. Chocolate has a range of chemicals that can set your hormones racing in the right direction. And better still is cheese. Sit and eat chocolate and cheese together in your prelude to sex and you will see some great things happening. Just remember to use dark chocolate.

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33. Did you know that a great kick start to any morning sex session is a cereal with almonds and apples? Give it a try.

34. There are several mood foods for sex. Avocado is one. Try it out.

35. And when you are talking about the right alcohol to set you in the right sexual mood, then what can be better than some champagne? Swirl it some in your mouth and then let it go inside slowly. And when the champagne is in your mouth, you can actually interlock tongues with your partner and make things so very hot.

36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.

Unleash Passion

37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.

38. If you want your woman to deep throat you during oral sex, you must take it slow and steady to begin with otherwise all you will end up with is vomit on the end of your penis. The best position for you both to be in is you standing and her on her knees in front of you.

39. Most women aren’t expert at deep throating. They find it painful and uncomfortable. If you feel that way too, then you can at least get the head of his cock to rub against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate. Keep a very firm grip on the portion of his penis shaft that is outside your mouth.

40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.

41. If your woman is boring at oral sex and just sucks up and down on your penis, try giving her some lube to rub on your penis so she can slide her hand up and down as she sucks away.

42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.

43. If you like having your anus explored, don’t be afraid to ask. If your lady is a little put off by this, try using a slim vibrator, dildo, anal toy or even a candle. Have your lady give you oral sex as she slowly inserts the item into your anus.

44. Watching pornography during sex can be beneficial to both parties. You can both learn new positions to try and it is a good way to get each other highly excited.

Carnal Pleasures - Animal Positions

45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.

46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.

47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.

Get deep into Your Man’s Mind

48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!

49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.

50. If your lady is quite shy in the bedroom, have her stand behind you and press herself up against you, slowly guide her hands over your body, ending with her hands around your penis and show her how to masturbate you. she will find this much easier.

51. The classical girl wrap position is always a hit. You have to be athletic for that but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate your fully.

52. Try to keep your shirt on! Honestly! Some men just love the suspense . They don’t want to see their women fully naked too soon. Try giving him a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots?

53. Another great—sorry, very great—thing for men is to give them a nice little licking when they are still limp. Just go under and give them some great swirls of the tongue and see how they harden up. This will be a great prelude to a great sexual episode. Plus, it also gives you the great confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.

54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.

55. Have you heard about Ben-Wa balls? These are not mere Sex Toys. If you use them regularly, you can actually make your vagina much harder and sexier.

56. When your lady is performing oral sex, don’t just allow her to please you p with her mouth. The peripheral things that she does are also important. You should use have her use her hands as well. Get her to stimulate your nipples and prostate while she is sucking you. No man can resist that.

57. Masturbation and oral sex are extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when your partner is pregnant or going through her periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner with such techniques.

58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.

59. Underwear can be used for more than one reason. Try tying her panties or stocking around the base of your penis like a cock ring. Get your lady to tighten it more and more as she performs oral sex on you.

60. Ask your lady to tie you up and tease you senseless. This can be erotic for both of you as she is now in charge and very empowered. You will find a lot of her inhibitions disappear if she has you all tied up.

61. When your man is performing cunnilingus on their you, make sure he knows the correct way to do it.The right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.

62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.

63. Why not make your very own porno? Having your very own sex film to watch can be one of the most exciting experiences you ever share.

64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.

65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.

66. Use your hands to great effect. When probing her vagina, make a come-here signal. This stimulates her highly sensitive upper vaginal wall and clitoris.

67. Why not have naked night? As soon as you both get home, go about your normal routing fully naked. See how long you can keep your hands of each other for

68. Treat your lady to a night of luxury, cook her a nice meal, put her in a bubble bathe with a glass of wine and then wash her all over. Pamper her if you want her to pamper you in bed. Candles in the bedroom and bathroom are always a nice touch

69. Masturbation is important. You should always masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything that is to follow.

70. Don’t just use your hands. Hands are important, of course, but then you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner fully, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him. That’s what makes great sex.

71. Try some Brazilian wax on yourself. It makes you very smooth and that’s something every man enjoys.

72. Lie with your partner for long periods of time. Actually, you must lie on top of him, facing him, and gently rocking from side to side. Feel his hardness making you moist and that’s what makes him harder. That’s a great way to start out your sexual episode together.

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