Cant talk?

13 Dec 07

Cant talk?

Are you one ofthe many men who just cannot being yourself to talk to a beautiful woman? No matter how much you want to speak to her, no words come out, or you speak very quick it sounds like your speaking in a different language. Well stop for a minute, you’re not on your own.

Ever wanted to be able to have a no stress and wonderful conversation with a woman with her not thinking you’re behaving ridiculous.

A few simple suggestions you will be in with all the glamours in no time.

Firstly, look at some of the things that block a man from being able to hold a conversation with the pretty girl.

-Fear of Boring Her to Death!

So you dont want to stuff it up? A man with little confidence will restrict the conversation, by talking to her about weather, work, and sports. He will bore her with questions and the next time, she will avoid him. If there is a next time.

-Never Shutting Up!

Nervous guys choose to talk non stop about nothing in particular to keep her attention. It is a big sign of social inexperience and nervousness. Which many females find a turn off.

-Asking Way Too Many Questions!

Nothing worse than suffering that awkward silence. He will ask questions repeatedly to avoid this silence. Hittin a girl with so many questions , especially one you do not know straight away, will leave a bad impression on her and will turn her off immediately.
So do something about it! Stop feeling sorry for oneself and get off the lounge and over the fear of rejection. Yes we all experience rejection at one point or another in life, so be it. Get up off your ass and get out there again.

Nerves can be overcome with knowledge. Strategise and you will be more confident. Learning what to say with the power of persuasion, is extremely effective.

Scenerio 1- You’re talking to a gorgeous , sexy, hot, mouth watering woman and wow she seems to like you. Youknow she’s enjoying your company and seems interested in what u are saying and maybe you feel sexual chemistry. You want to make something happen, but yet you do not want to scare her off or get rejected. To get the girl you have to give a good communication skills and a female loves to see a very confident man who can hold his own.
Do not make promises that you have no intention of keeping.

At the end of the day, yes you got a date or yes she spoke to you. If it was a success then great, but if she seems to look at you like you are a freak, or never seemed interested in you, then cut your losses and move on. No big deal.

Life is too short to worry about anything that may not work out. Get on with life and obviously if she is meant to be “the one” then it will happen naturally. Stop trying so hard as it is a major turn off for women.

The right person is out there for everyone. Until you find that one person.

Live! Be happy and enjoy the moment you have. Tomorrow is another day.

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Goodluck