Category: BSDM
BSDM
Tie and tease refers towards the BDSM practice for tying up a partner all for sexual
pleasure and then your partner orgasm.
The reciever is tied down and then constantly stimulated with no relief.
Any form of tying or bondage is commenly used , but it is more commonly practised with the partner sprawled out and tied to a four poster bed. This is the main form of bondage couples will explore since it combines pleasure with some form of power play.Which we all like to engage in at some point. (admit it)
It can also be the beginning to more painful play such as pinching, biting and pulling. Negotiation in BDSM usually focuses on what will or won’t be done so to set boundaries for people who are not too sure about the act.
Many people like to explore the more risky side of BSDM, such as the use of hot waxes, toys, gags , cuffs,whips etc. Alot also only tend to deal with soft core play. Everyones desire differs.
Tie and tease is a psychological activity as well as a physical one.
It is often, the bound person will be gagged so as to increase their sense of
helplessness, increasing sexual desire for both reciever and giver.
Some couples practise the art of BDSM with the bound and gagged reciever watching as a third person is involved and having sex with the giver.
Tease and Denial:
Tease and Denial is when a person is stimulated until orgasm is near,
and then stimulation is slowed down to keep the person being stimulated right to the
edge of orgasm but without the promise of orgasm at the end, or abruptly cease all contact to prevent orgasm completely .
If orgasm still occurs after the stopping of stimulation, it brings alot less pleasure than usual, and is considered a “Ruined orgasm”. As opposed to being “denied orgasm”.
Depending on the relationship, subjects might be repeatedly teased to the
point of orgasm several times, causing feelings of intense arousal and the need for physical contact. (you all know exactly what im talkin about !)
If Bondage (BDSM) is used in a Tease and denial session, it is called a
“Tie and tease”.
Tie & tease:
A Tie and tease can be thought of as extended sexual stimulation
performed on a person who is restrained. This practice is often hightened arousal
for erotic denial.
Tie and tease activities are physically, as well as psychologically intense because the
intense feelings of sexual frustration are hightened by the sensation of helplessness encouraged by the bondage.
Total denial:
The practice of total denial is where the subject is not allowed any
sexual touch. (penetration, masturbation, oral) The reciever may or may not be brought to arousal through other means, depending on the situation.
Ruined orgasm:
Ruined orgasm is a practise used to deny a person the physical pleasure of
release, while still allowing climax. It is often performed by completely removing all
stimulation of the genitals at the moment the reciever reaches the brink of
orgasm, and is certain to drive the teased one thru the roof!
Erotic denial as a form of control:
Erotic sexual denial, in many forms, is sometimes associated with
creating a state of sexual need, leading to a much wanted outcome by the denied partner, who will generally be trying to rip you to shreds during all play from frustration.
Orgasm denial can allow dominant males and females to have control and training over a highly intimate and psychologically significant part of their partners’ lives.
This can extend the tolerance of increased stimulation, and training to hold back, or to orgasm on command.
This practise gives the dominant partner great feelings of control and power.It generally is very arousing for both partners, and with respect and boundaries set in place , there should be no problems in the bedroom between 2 lovers, as long as there is extreme trust between them.
If you do not trust your partner then its best not to go down the road of BSDM.
For the adventurous couples, check out the many ranges of toys available
or view just some of our products:
gag straps and balls
lockable cock ring
For those who want to stimulate the ladies and be nasty:
the viva gel is a must to get her to hit the roof!
None of this is possible with out a trusting partner .
GET INTO IT PEOPLE, AND DISCOVER WHAT THE BEDROOM HAS TO OFFER…
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