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How many people have cheated on their partner? Well, in truth , many people have and very few will admit it(even to themselves)

Many for selfish reasons, from excuses to “my sex life has deteriorated” to “she/he doesnt put out, so i have to get it from somewhere.”

All excuses in the book are lame, and they are just that.. EXCUSES.

Women and men cheat too this is not just aiming at one gender in this topic.

For the cheated on, its a severe blow emotionally and for the cheater to expect his/her partner to build a bridge and get over it is totally unacceptable. The cheated on has lost faith and trust and will never be the same again in regards to his/her partner. Even if they do decide to stay together and “work it out” It is never how it used to be.

So what do we class as cheating?

Well that depends on the couple, between themselves. Most people view a kiss as cheating. Being in a chat room talkin to the opposite sex also. But yes unless you are in some sort of open relationship, then having sex outside of your relationship is cheating!

If the relationship has gone sour in the bedroom department , try spicing it up a bit. Introduce toys, movies, fetishes , fantasies, edibles and above all else communicate.After all,we are all only human and want some excitement in our lives.But that doesnt have to be at the cost of your loved one. If he/she doesnt respond to your wishes on spicing it up or shows no interest in you at all then maybe its time to hang your hat up and call it a day.

Many people still love their spouses even tho they stray, but its not good enough! If you loved them as much as you may think you do, under no circumstances does cheating become a factor. If you feel the need to scratch an itch, then show your partner some kind of respect and leave them first, before it detroys family, or brings home disease.

Many situations are classed as cheating but like i said depending on your situation is what classes it. Bottom line is, if you are in a commited monogomous relationship and you stray outside of that, then be prepared to have your whole life torn upside down. But even more so think of your partner as they do not deserve it regardless.

Is one night of cheating worth your long lasting relationship?

Is it worth risking the loss of family?

Do not think for one moment that the decieved upon will never find out… it always comes out in the wash, whether tomorrow or in 5 years.

Also remember,for the cheated upon…. once a cheater, always a cheater. It becomes a habit. So dont ever think you can tame him/her. Next time they are just more careful.

For the cheater-Think about it if situation was reversed? If the thought doesnt kill you emotionally then your relationship is in trouble, and perhaps you owe it to your spouse to lewt them be happy somewhere else, rather than on false pretenses.