Gettin back on your horse

14 Dec 07

Gettin back on your horse

So many people in the world,so many singles.You would think that dating would be easy. Many people have given up completely on finding someone. I have found that there is a continuing line of excuses that people use to get out of the dating scene.

One of the main excuses is a person’s physical limitation. What they may see in themselves as an imperfection may be someone’s idea of beautiful. So stop being sekf judging. Cover the damn the damn mirror if need be and get out there and let others make up their own minds.

The rate of marriages within people over the age of 40 is increasing every year.It has never been like that many many yrs ago, but times change and people must adapt to life as it is today.
Many single parents use their kids as an excuse not to see other people.

Another is due to being treated badly in the past. Pick yourself up and brush off the cobwebs. I am damn sure your ex isnt brooding over you. They are an ex for a reason, and we have all been hurt, and wont be the first or the last time someone gets hurt either.Do not date on the rebound as that makes you no better. Get over the emotional crap you are going through and get on with life.

Shyness is also another excuse. Do you manage to deal with people at work? I am sure you have had many conversations with friends etc in the past. Its easy to see the date the same way as you would a friend if that is what will ease you into the date and be yourself. After all if it eventually stems into more than just a date, he or she will soon see the real you, so why beat around the bush. Show it from the get go. No fakes.

If there is something you don’t want to do, don’t do it. But in saying that , then don’t complain when nothing happens. You need to put in what you hope and want to get out. There is someone out there for everyone.

Find someone who actually wants a relationship, rather than spending your time on someone that doesnt seem interested. Why waste your time ? Move on with life and look out the window once in a while to see the sun has come up and its another day.

At the end of the day, only you can decide what is best for you, but if you stay single due to lame excuses, then it will be a somewhat lonely life.

There are plenty of dating sites on the internet these days, for those who do not want to venture outside and do that dating style old school ..Let there be no excuses.

Its ok if you are not totally ready to get out and about, just stop complaining about being single, as it does become old news.

Goodluck