Him on top?

5 Apr 08

Him on top?

Not everything that’s old is always bad.Sometimes people like old school.

Sometimes people just want to get things over and done with.

There must have been something nice in older styles of lovemaking , belly slapping or just plain out right shagging, otherwise people wouldn’t have clung to them for so long. Yes we are talking about the classic missionary position of man on top. Mostly these days that position is seen as boring for both male and female.Some poeple like it almost everytime they do the deed but its true that a man who insists on being on top every time is no fun, but trying these positions every once in a while is not a bad thing. Just not all the time.

Ok everyone knows that him on top positions are very good for the man, but we also know that many women don’t always get any pleasure this way.

So couples need to learn to communicate and be open towards each other during sex, because women must take the bull by the horns and tell the men what feels good and what doesn’t to her.. come on ladies he wont know unless you speak up.

One positive about him on top positions is the fact that its fantastic for beginners. Boys who lack experience with sex have an easier time, by being in a position of power.

Lack of confidence is likely to make a young man lose his erection. But this being a power position for him, it will make him more comfortable.

The same goes for the inexperienced lady will also benefit from letting the man take control and letting him do most of the work. As inexperienced girls will often have no clue what they themselves should be doing.

But ladies, you don’t have to lay stiff on the bed like a wall plaque as its not a good thing to do during sex.

Join in the fun. Throw your legs around his hips, or over his shoulders if you are feeling keen. Touch his body while he thrusts inside you and whisper sweet dirty things in his ears, or simply just breathe in his ears.

Yes he will be more aroused than ever knowing that you enjoy yourself and any man who is not for himself will doeverything in his power to bring you to orgasm.

There is no problem with letting your mate think himself in control now and then, as It’s good for both of you to explore everything that sex has to offer. Missionary granted is not the bees knees of sex positions, but alot of men still use it, particularly more mature men.

Missionary has its place in everyones sex life, as not every old-fashioned thing should be thrown away. Sometimes its nice to just be thrown down and just hammered by him being on top.

So you see it doesnt have to be boring, nor do you have to lay there saying ” oh yeah ” while secretly looking at your watch.

Throw yourself in and if he is on top, so what! get in , be dirty and help spice it up.

The days of the men doing all the work and the woman being on her back are over ladies, so get involved.

Like i said he wont know what you like or what you want unless you tell him.

Below is a book we have in store at theloveshop for anyone wanting any ideas on better positions, and believe me its worth a read.You can purchase for $21.95 AU and its worth every cent to spice up any sex life wanting a bit of zing.