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Insecurity feelings.

It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid.

Do you want to make her feel better about her ass. Most women are insecure about their asses this is not a Bedroom Secrets. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help to make her feel better

Tell your lady that it makes you super horney touching and massaging her. Have her lay on her stomach. Start off by massaging her shoulders and back. Go down and massage her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice and sexy her ass is, then insert a few fingers into her! vagina, if she says anything just say how horney touching her ass makes you feel.

Lying sometimes to your lady about her cellulite by acting as if you’ve never noticed any, can sometimes help. Just don’t act too stupid, as she will know you are lying. It is the stuff on her body that looks like cottage cheese. If she i! s uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex.

Most women will have a spare tyre around their middle, especially if she has had children. Tell her that she should love her tummy as you love her tummy and how you like to kiss her down there as it makes you as horny as hell. If this don’t work, have her lie down and show her.

Ask your lady why she turns out the lights before she comes to bed for sex. Tell her that you like to look at her beautiful body and to watch her have an orgasm. As this makes you very excited. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.

Perfection is something that you are never going to find, as nobody can be perfect, even those lady’s in dvds, mags and on TV are not perfect. No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Imperfections are everywhere.

Point out to you lady that you have imperfections as well and that nobody is perfect. Ask her if she would like to know all your imperfections, point them out to her, go in detail if you have to.

Be open and honest about your imperfections, Tell her your leg is bigger than the other one, or your penis bends sideways, I’m not saying you should break down and become manic when you tell her this. Use common sense. Don’t go out of your way to cry or act depressed. She will see this coming a mile away.

It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. You need to listen to her so that you know what she thinks her faults are. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!

The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself. If you want to have that earth pounding orgasm that floods the room with semen, then you better make her feel comfortable.

I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. If you were a painter, would you be able to paint a picture if you were very nervous? Would you be able to paint a straight line if there was a bomb going off next to you? No, you wouldn’t be able to. This is what it is like for your woman. She can’t perform if she doesn’t feel comfortable naked around you.

Maybe if all else fails, you could suggest trying breathing excesses which you can find on the net. They are a great way to relax and to relieve stress as well. If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. You could do this together.

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Last Modified: November 7th, 2008
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