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Overcoming Insecurity

It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid.

Do you want to make her feel better about her ass. Most women are insecure about their asses this is not a Bedroom Secrets. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help to make her feel better

Have her lay on her stomach. Start off by massaging her shoulders and back. Go down and massage her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will try to insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.

Some women have cellulite. It is the stuff on her body that looks like cottage cheese. If she is uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex. Tell her that you can’t even notice that she has any. Act stupid and pretend like you never seen it. Don’t act too stupid, or she will know that you are lying.

If your woman has a spare tire around her stomach, don’t make her fret over it. Tell her to look at it until she feels comfortable with it. If this don’t work, have her lie down and kiss her stomach. Tell her how much it makes you horny when you kiss her down there. She will eat this up.

Ask your lady why she turns out the lights before she comes to bed for sex. Tell her that you like to look at her beautiful body and to watch her have an orgasm. As this makes you very excited. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.

Perfection is something that you are never going to find, as nobody can be perfect, even those lady’s in dvds, mags and on TV are not perfect. No person is perfect. We would all wish that our women were perfect little love machines, but they aren’t. Imperfections are everywhere.

Give her the bigger picture that everybody including herself has imperfections and that you can go into detail for her about yours if you have to. You need to let your woman know that even though she isn’t perfect you think she is.

Putting on too big a act, becoming manic and crying and acting depressed will give you away, you need to use common sense, She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.

It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. You need to listen to her so that you know what she thinks her faults are. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!

Do you want earth shattering orgasms that send you to orbit and back?The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself.

I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. If you were a painter, would you be able to paint a picture if you were very nervous? Would you be able to paint a straight line if there was a bomb going off next to you? No, you wouldn’t be able to. This is what it is like for your woman. She can’t perform if she doesn’t feel comfortable naked around you.

If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. I would suggest that you try breathing excesses. You can easily find directions for these on the net. These are a great way to relax and relieve stress as well. Both of you should do this together.

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Last Modified: November 7th, 2008
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