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When a woman reaches a certain high level of sexual excitement, her labia
changes color. The color change indicates that orgasm can occur if enough stimulation continues.

At the same time that the color change happens, the labia becomes larger
because of the increased blood flow that results from her arousal. When
sexual stimulation stops, both the larger outer lips and the smaller inner
lips return to their usual size and shape within a short period of time.

Women’s genitals vary greatly in appearance. There are
differences in size, colour, shape, texture and distribution of pubic hair, and in the appearance of the clitoris and vaginal opening. All of the different shapes, sizes and
colours etc are normal.

Many women do not like the look of their genitals, believing it is ugly or disgusting because they appear to them, for whatever reason, to be abnormal. No one is the same ladies

The clitoris is the female sexual organ found where the labia minora, or
inner lips, meet. It is a rounded area or head, called the glans.

The tissue of the inner lips normally covers the shaft of the clitoris, which makes a hood to protect it. The only visible part of the clitoris is the glans, which looks like a small, shiny button. YEP fellas you know exactly bout that button!

The amount of nerve endings in the clitoris makes it extremely sensitive to
direct or indirect touch or pressure. Stimulation on this area can be very pleasurable.

In fact, sexual pleasure is the organ’s only known function, and the clitoris is the only organ with pleasure as its sole function. It has nothing to do with getting pregnant, with menstruation (periods) or with using the ladies room.

When a woman becomes sexually aroused,the glans and the shaft fill
with blood and increase in size. There is no evidence that a larger clitoris means more intense sexual arousal, probably just more to enjoy for the fellas haha!

As stimulation continues and orgasm approaches…WOOOHHHOOOOO!! …AHHEMM where were we.. oh yes…. the clitoris becomes less visible as it is covered by the swelling of tissues of the clitoral hood.

This swelling protects the clitoris from direct contact, because fellas for some women, can be more irritating than pleasurable. It moves out again when the stimulation stops.

After orgasm the clitoris returns to normal size. If the woman doesn’t have an orgasm, the blood that has flowed into the clitoris as a result of sexual arousal may remain there, keeping the clitoris blown up for a few hours. Many women find this uncomfortable, and become frustrated. SO GIVE HER THE ORGASM or give her something to ease her pain AHHHH

A woman’s clit can be stimulated through direct or indirect contact.
During intercourse the penis does not come into direct contact with the clitoris . The
thrusting of the penis in the vagina, regardless of the position used, doggy, missionary, on top, upside down or what ever freaky moves you do help to move the labia , and it is this movment of the lips against the clit that mainly creates the orgasm.

Direct contact with the clitoris by touching it with a finger, vibrator, or
a tongue can cause more discomfort than pleasure for many women. Or make them just want to punch the shit out of you. For these women, generally rubbing or licking of the area around the clitoris feels better. Other women enjoy direct stimulation.
There is great difference with sensitivity in the clitoris and each woman.

It basically comes down to knowing your body, knowing her body and doing what works for you both. Many women spend a lifetime just having sex but never feelin the intense pleasure of what an orgasm is. It is nothin to do with the fact that they are abnormal or he is not doing it right. (well ok sometimes) haha, but more to the point that she has not discovered that she has a tiny button there that is meant to make her squirm.

Discovery, people! .. is the key!

Stop sittin infront of the tube or on the computer, and get in touch with your sexuality.

Grab a torch, grab some toys, do what ever but get off the chair and awaken your sexual senses. A half hour sex session burns more calories than you might realise too. So get excercising people!
Merry Xmas to all and remember we all have a certain kinkiness , just some people are harder to let inhibitions go.

This has been your friendly naughty santa Dee from theloveshop

“reveal your inner naughtiness”

Last Modified: December 3rd, 2007
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