Orgasms from oral sex

16 Apr 08

Orgasms from oral sex

Do you know that more than 30% of women in the world cannot and do not experience an orgasm?

For most women the best way of achieving the ultimate, mind blowing orgasm where your body seems to explode in a frenzy is through oral sex, if its done correctly

If a partner knows how to give outstanding oral sex then a woman will reach an orgasm almost every time …and infact it can become fool proof once you know exactly what you are doing.

There are many different ways to give oral to your partner and all I can say is, the best way is the way you and your partner feel most comfortable with.

Both you and your partner should be in a comfortable and relaxed position and ladies you need to be the one telling your partner what you want him to do, or guide him to doing it.

Oral sex, intercourse, foreplay or what ever kinky activities you get up to is to be enjoyed by both partners, not just one so learn to speak up and communicate with what you like or do NOT like.

NEVER DO ANYTHING just because your partner likes it. A pushy persistant lover can do nothin but turn you off especially when he/she keeps insisting on something you are not interested in and they are aware of it.

Thats when it turns to complete ignorance.

Fellas

1- Use the flat of your tongue - really going to town and sucking on a girl’s clit may sound exciting to some men, but I have found that it can also turn a girl off with the continual sucking.

2- Listen to her - if she tells you to give it to her with your tongue, then do it, follow her lead but at the same time experiment, use your fingers to please and tease at the same time, if she likes toys, use them gently unless she tells you to use them on her harder and harder.

3- Ladies, tell your man what you want, don’t be afraid to open up and tell him your needs.

Not everyone is into oral sex, and thats fine. But those who are, if you are to have success you really must be open and patient. Men get off in an instant, women take work.

Most men wouldn’t complain and the thought of being stuck between her legs for a while though, so everyone wins. But Like i said, do not go for it like a thirsty dog.

She will sooner tell you to piss off and not bother again.

Some women take time to get used to the idea of oral sex and when she finally tries it and he goes to town on her like he is starving, it tends to make these women say “well i know why i havent bothered” and they tend not to try again.

Listen to her and move with her, let her guide you.

She knows what works for her and if you arent sure of her body then just go with the motion of her.

In time you will soon figure out the weaknesses and HELLLLOOOOOOO orgasms