to do or not to do- that is the Question

9 Oct 07

to do or not to do- that is the Question

Whole lot of fun? or total disaster?

A few fantasies that might cross many of our thoughts at one time or another during our lives is having sex with someone of the same or opposite sex while our partner watches, or watching our parnters do the hanky panky with someone else opposite or both of you having sex together with someone else invited in. In the fantasy it can be a huge turn-on and chances are have had an orgasm or two while singing along to this thought.

But. What if it became a reality?.

Here are a few things to consider before involving a third party (or more) into your bedroom.

The first thing you need to do is consider your partner’s feelings.

Have you discussed this with them before? Do they know you would like more in the bedroom?

Honesty is the best policy regardless.

Tell them what you want and ask how they would feel about doing it. They will either agree to try or refuse the on the spot.

You really do need to respect their wishes either way,

as the idea with a threesome is to add a little excitement into the bedroom, not destroy a relationship.

It is a common fact that most men fantasize about seeing their partners with another woman, so that might be more accepted than involving another man.

If they don’t like the idea at all forget it,its not worth the price of your relationships.

Now, there is alot of people out there who love having a threesomes or moresome action, so where do you start looking?

You may have a friend that would be keen to get in there and go for it with you.

But be warned it can be a disaster when introducing someone you already know.

Be prepared to lose a friendship or even your relationship.

If you want to add in a complete stranger then why not check out a dating website.

Sexual Contacts Network

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There are thousands of people on these sites who are willing to join a couple in a threesome.

You might even want to meet a couple and join them in a swinging session. The choice is yours, but do your research thoroughly and be sure about the whole thing.

You might not get your exact match to what you want either,but mostly close enough is fine.

Just be sure to both agree on the person you are bringing in, as there sometimes can be jealousy issues.

Other ways of bringing excitement into your life with out the use of another person, is to be a bit more adventurous. open your minds and try new positions and toys