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EVERY male loves to watch porn, regardless if he openly admits it or not.The problem many men face is… does his partner find it kinky and arousing too?
Does he know if their partner has ever seen a porn movie or stepped foot into the doors of the wonderful world of adult shops?

Many men have a collection of porno’s or dirty magazines that they keep hidden from their spouse. Yes its a fact, as many do not want their wives/partners knowing they secretly enjoy the good old blue movie or stick mag.

If the partner has never seen a porn movie, their thoughts on them can be one of filth and disgust andthey more than likely will have no interest in watchin them at all. This is where the male has to use his brain in talking to his partner about it. He likes to watch porn movies? Thats all fine, but he also must enquire what his parnters interest may be

They might like blokes with a large penis so even though most males are not interested in males with a large penis, you can always look for a movie that has this, but also with females in the style that you like too. This way you both get what you like to see in a porn movie and be able to watch it together.

More and more females now go to adult shops on their own even if it just to have a look. If the female has never been to an adult store, it might be an idea to encourage taking her to one so she can see that they are not the sleazy as many people still believe they are.

Most are very brightly lit up and not any longer the hidden shop in the background in an alley way somewhere sleazy.

the stores also have fully trained, friendly,discreet staff to help them with any number of enquires they might have. Once they have found out for themselves about adult shops don’t be shocked if they go there on their own after that as there is plenty of things that will have her interested.

She might even have a fantasy of watching to gay men having sex. Dont be shocked or disgusted by her fantasies what ever they may be, as many men have fantasies about lesbians so some women also have the same fetish watching 2 men shagging.

Your desires may differ from hers, so be it. Dont let any fantasies or interests deter either of you. The other partner does not have to watch a movie that the other finds erotic. There is plenty of other things to do while they watch a movie, IE: help turning them on with some tongue action while they watch a movie…this way you both get enjoyment from what ever you decide to do.

Males also tend not to look for pornos with a story line, men just enjoy pure straight humping in a movie, where as many females like a story line to get them interested.
Both scenarios are great and it takes compromise between couples.

Bottom line is, adult shops are fantastic, discreet and non judgemental with staff who will bend over backwards to help you. If someone is too shy or doesnt like the idea of a sex shop, then dont force it upon them. People are different in there needs and wants and Sex Toys etc cannot be forced onto anyone.

Deep down we all have a kinky side and fetishes, fantasies etc but not everyone is open enough to share it with their partner and that is ok…just hopefully as time passes they can let their guard down and share their thoughts with you.

Goodluck

-Dee

Last Modified: August 15th, 2008
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